Saturday, January 14, 2006

Because I look better in real life

Another date with the same guy. It was alright. I'm still not interested, but I'm afraid he is. Sigh.


Blogger Dave Walter said...

If he calls to arrange another get-together (or you call him), maybe you could throw in a comment along these lines: "I really enjoy spending time with you. It's nice to hang out with a friend instead of someone who is interested in getting physical."

If he's interested in sex, and that's all he's interested in, he may suddenly have reasons for not being available to get together. If he's interested in sex, but also interested in being your friend, he may be disappointed, but then stop pursuing sex and shift to "friends only" mode.

The latter was the case with me and one of my new friends just after I came out. Once I said (in a gentle way) there would be no sex, that awkward matter was off the table, and we became really great friends.


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Blogger DCTwistedLife said...

This happens... just be nice and if he TRIES anything with you, you can politely decline. But as i'm sure you know, there are ways to hint at him that youre not interested, BEFORE it gets to that point. :)

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